How to Improve your Personality and Win Hearts of babes

I knew this post was comming! You must also … that too after 2 mushy posts in the past!

Understanding the fairer sex’s mind has become a big pastime and one of the most difficult job to do. Not to forget that’s damn risky as well.

What started off as a simple conversation with Ashish, developed into this post. Ashish is a veteran in issues like how to handle chicks, how to act, behave and things like that. We can write a book on his accomplishments and now devoting his time in helping poor souls like me.

So let’s get into the business right away….

Ashwin: I have a candid confession to make. I want to fall in love! Just waiting for the right moment!! (Then Ashish asks me what ego and carry forward the discussion)
Ashish: Ego makes a man a man. If your an egoist…you’ll never be able to get close to a girl specially the girl you LOVE. Ego makes a man a man. If your an egoist…you’ll never be able to get close to a girl.

Ashwin: Can you explain more on ego?
Ashish: Ego is the most imp aspect of personal relationships. Ego is like a weapon. If u know how to use it u can seduce any girl or and if u cant control your ego you’ll be devastated. It’s a dangerous thing but a powerful thing.

Too much ego obviously will take you nowhere. Balanced ego will make you a stud and applying ego comes with experience. Ego is so powerful that u can make a girl fall in love with u without even saying much.

Ashwin: If I see a chick walking by.. shall I ‘look’ at her or will it be bad manners? What will girls think
Ashish: If you want to look, then look in her eyes with a very faint smile.

Ashwin: Are you sure this will help? Won’t planting a faint smile look awkward and silly?
Ashish: They will think your cute! It will make u look different. It will make u stand out from the crowd. Don’t forget that good looking girls are always followed by guys. What if u behave just like what she expects for her. Otherwise for her, you’ll end up just like another guy. Don’t forget that good looking girls are always followed by guys. What if you behave just like what she expects? Otherwise for her, you’ll end up just like another guy.

Ashwin: I don’t want to love a gorgeous looking chick.. but a good looking girl will do.
Ashish: Good looking are the most toughest to crack. Gorgeous girls most of the times settle for average guys. Because they have superiority complex phobia, for that they need an average guy who they can dominate in superiority.

The good looking one and the basically good ones look for balance and genuine stuff. ‘Good’ girls are always hardest.

Ashwin: How to make the right first impression?
Ashish: Be natural. Don’t talk much and try to be mysterious. Have some ego, always have a very very faint smile on your face and and look in eyes.

Ashwin: What about sex? Not that we all want to rape any chick that we bump into, after sex what we’re friends.
Ashish: Sex is something which always happens on its own. You can’t ask a chick for sex. Sex will always be spontaneous otherwise it will be one sided for any hidden reason. Never seek sex, the only thing you can seek is friendship. Sex should be spontaneous and will happen on it’s own. Otherwise it will be one sided for any hidden reason.

Ashwin: Where to find and have friendship with new chicks and babes?
Ashish: Pubs, malls and dancing classes. If you’re going to malls, go with friends who are gutsy. Female friends will be a bonus. Dance classes are the easiest and the safest best. It will keep you fit as well. Especially Salsa classes. Maybe you’ll find gorgeous babes.

What do you think about online socializing (like Orkut)? Is it effective for these kind of purpose?Online socializing is crap. It’s only to keep in touch with old and distant friends.
Ashish: It’s a crap. It’s only to keep in touch with old and distant friends.

Ashwin: Is there anything else you want to add?
Ashish: No matter what.. car and money matters. A Car will get you babes.

You always fall in love with the person who might leave you. That’s why you need to play safely.

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Reader’s Contribution
I just love you wonderful readers of my blog. You people never let me down! There’re some good feedbacks in the comments, which I thought be a value addition in this post.

Embolis says:
To start with: Don’t run behind girls and don’t let girls run behind you. Go for a clean friendship based on sincerity, loyalty and honesty…with a feeling of goodness. Have you heard: good friends make good lovers? So FRIENDSHIP is the key.

Next: please avoid sex till you are married. Dont play with fire otherwise the fire will gulp you.

Love will happen and when it does ‘love with passion’ as if you have nothing to lose. Keep it pure and simple. And..love one person and only one person, being sincere and being candid.

Bluediamond (Archana) says:
I feel there are no tips or tricks to fall in love. It just happens, unknowingly. You cant deliberately love a person. And dont try to change yourself, and also keep many expectations from the other. All have their individual lives. Its just about, how you can go together holding hands parallely, to the same or different destination, and also, thru same or different (virtual) paths…

Thanks a lot of the feedback and honest comments people. Love to see more of them!

–X–X–

How’s was this article? Did you enjoy? I did not ask Ashish whether I can go ahead and make a post about the things we chatted!

In the end Ashish claimed that: “I’m doing well. You’ll fall in love, don’t worry.” Hope something like that happens soon enough.

What do my female readers think? Can you share your tips? What’s your taste? How do like guys to ‘behave’?

Before I leave you, here’s something for the fairer sex:
“Ashwin is single…
but dying to mingle…”

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